There are many who believe that to turn spiritual you have to change your
wardrobe, diet and lifestyle and adopt a sombre and boring pattern. This does
not appeal to those who continue in their materialistic ways. A few inspired
ones change everything except their thinking! They fail to benefit, get
frustrated and give up. Rare is the wise one who focuses only on 'attitude'. And
succeeds! You have a fundamental choice in every situation, at every moment. You
can be unhappy and complain. Or you can be happy and cheerful.
It has nothing to do with the world or what it presents. You could have the best of things and still be miserable. You may have nothing and yet be deliriously happy. The difference is in your attitude. In life, everyone is denied a few things. But all of us have been blessed with millions of gifts. If you focus on what you do not have, you will be unhappy. If you choose to focus on the things you have, you are grateful and you develop an irresistible desire to share, contribute, and give. This makes you happy.
The most precious things come for free, which you do not even consider! Hence you live life feeling deprived and deficient when, in fact, you are could be totally fulfilled and abundant. An object is red in colour because it reflects red. It gains what it gives and loses the other colours it takes. So shift your focus from 'what can I gain' to 'how can I add value to others' and success will be yours. Besides, all selfish people are unhappy. To the extent you turn unselfish you will be happy.
Do you have conflict with the people you love most? Do you blame the 'other person' for it? Maybe it has to do with your attitude. Do you have expectations of your family members? Do you make demands on your spouse and children? This is not love. It is attachment. Love tainted with selfishness is attachment. You only love yourself. You claim to love because they happen to cater to you in some way. This causes conflict and untold suffering. In the end you lose them. Attachment is the single most important cause for breakdown in relationships.
Physically hanging on to spouse and children does not make for meaningful relationships. You need to earn their love and respect. Shift your stance from 'hanging on' to 'letting go' -- from binding them to releasing them from your clutches; from focussing on your happiness to enabling their fulfilment. Accept them for what they are, not for what they can do for you. The world and all that it offers is temporary, fleeting, passing. Understand the transient nature of the world while living in it and you will be happy
It has nothing to do with the world or what it presents. You could have the best of things and still be miserable. You may have nothing and yet be deliriously happy. The difference is in your attitude. In life, everyone is denied a few things. But all of us have been blessed with millions of gifts. If you focus on what you do not have, you will be unhappy. If you choose to focus on the things you have, you are grateful and you develop an irresistible desire to share, contribute, and give. This makes you happy.
The most precious things come for free, which you do not even consider! Hence you live life feeling deprived and deficient when, in fact, you are could be totally fulfilled and abundant. An object is red in colour because it reflects red. It gains what it gives and loses the other colours it takes. So shift your focus from 'what can I gain' to 'how can I add value to others' and success will be yours. Besides, all selfish people are unhappy. To the extent you turn unselfish you will be happy.
Do you have conflict with the people you love most? Do you blame the 'other person' for it? Maybe it has to do with your attitude. Do you have expectations of your family members? Do you make demands on your spouse and children? This is not love. It is attachment. Love tainted with selfishness is attachment. You only love yourself. You claim to love because they happen to cater to you in some way. This causes conflict and untold suffering. In the end you lose them. Attachment is the single most important cause for breakdown in relationships.
Physically hanging on to spouse and children does not make for meaningful relationships. You need to earn their love and respect. Shift your stance from 'hanging on' to 'letting go' -- from binding them to releasing them from your clutches; from focussing on your happiness to enabling their fulfilment. Accept them for what they are, not for what they can do for you. The world and all that it offers is temporary, fleeting, passing. Understand the transient nature of the world while living in it and you will be happy
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